Set Me Free

What does a guy say or do if he has found someone else and wants to get rid of you?? If he is man enough, he'll tell you the truth. But if he's a coward and lacks character, chances are he'll make up all sorts of excuses..some extremely ridiculous too. My ex-boyfriend who cheated on me behind my back took a fancy to someone else and didnt know how to get rid of me. So he said he was very stressed and needed to be alone to sort things out because his parents were pushing him to marry the girl they have chosen for him. But the very next day i caught him in his condo with another woman at midnite and he claimed she was his new girlfriend for over a month already! And now he's having a time of his life dating this new woman, while i am crying every nite and hurting so much. I am a passionate person and love with passion, work with passion and do everything with passion. I gave so much and he just didnt know how to appreciate true & sincere love. Now i wonder what i ever saw in a man like that . All i can say is, "What goes around comes around. If u don't get what's coming to you now...u will at some point in your life!"

Still, the worst excuse he gave was when i caught a glimpse of another woman's picture in his wallet! I asked him who it was and he said it was his sister. I insisted it didnt look like his sister but he denied everything of course. And when i kept pestering him to show me his wallet, he said he can't open his wallet and show me the picture because it was bad luck to do so right after paying for dinner! hahahaha! Said it was an albanian culture. Yeah..right! I ain't born yesterday brother!

I've been feeling so depressed lately and i'm moving about like a zombie. Havent had a decent nite's sleep and havent stopped crying. I regret the day i met him. I loved him with all my heart and gave him all my love but he took me for granted and treated me like dirt. He lied to me over & over again and finally i caught him cheating on me with another woman. It was traumatic..i found her in his apartment at midnite and he told me she was his gf for a month already and i was nobody. He said i was NOBODY!!! i've been with him for a year and i had to endure so much hurt and pain with all the lies and he said i was nobody. So, guess what???! Ms. Nobody punched his face and gave him a bleeding nose! It was the first time that i've ever punched anyone in my whole life and it was emotionally draining. I felt so hurt and betrayed. And i bet the pain in my heart was 10 times worse than his stupid nose. Now that i've learnt my lesson...let me tell you how to spot a player:

1. Never has time for you. Always says he's busy
2. Looks at every woman who walks by..and even stares and makes eye contact with them
3. Has a lot of secrets. Always seems like he's hiding something. Not transparent at all.
4. Doesnt show you where he lives & doesnt invite you to hang out there often (which he should..if ur his gf!)
5. Gets overly angry & upset when u turn up at his place/home unannounced (even if ur supposed to be his gf)
6. Keeps deleting your name and pictures in the handphone
7. Doesnt like you to pick him up or drop him right in front of his workplace.
8. Gives stupid excuses to try and get rid of you once he's tired or bored of you.

Next- i will tell some of the excuses he gave to try and get out of telling the truth. Some were laughable coz they were so ridiculously stupid! ha!ha!