I've been feeling so depressed lately and i'm moving about like a zombie. Havent had a decent nite's sleep and havent stopped crying. I regret the day i met him. I loved him with all my heart and gave him all my love but he took me for granted and treated me like dirt. He lied to me over & over again and finally i caught him cheating on me with another woman. It was traumatic..i found her in his apartment at midnite and he told me she was his gf for a month already and i was nobody. He said i was NOBODY!!! i've been with him for a year and i had to endure so much hurt and pain with all the lies and he said i was nobody. So, guess what???! Ms. Nobody punched his face and gave him a bleeding nose! It was the first time that i've ever punched anyone in my whole life and it was emotionally draining. I felt so hurt and betrayed. And i bet the pain in my heart was 10 times worse than his stupid nose. Now that i've learnt my lesson...let me tell you how to spot a player:
1. Never has time for you. Always says he's busy
2. Looks at every woman who walks by..and even stares and makes eye contact with them
3. Has a lot of secrets. Always seems like he's hiding something. Not transparent at all.
4. Doesnt show you where he lives & doesnt invite you to hang out there often (which he should..if ur his gf!)
5. Gets overly angry & upset when u turn up at his place/home unannounced (even if ur supposed to be his gf)
6. Keeps deleting your name and pictures in the handphone
7. Doesnt like you to pick him up or drop him right in front of his workplace.
8. Gives stupid excuses to try and get rid of you once he's tired or bored of you.
Next- i will tell some of the excuses he gave to try and get out of telling the truth. Some were laughable coz they were so ridiculously stupid! ha!ha!